There is a certain person in my life who is a constant thorn in my side. It is a person who is connected by "family", and will continue to be in my life in one shape, form, or fashion for another 14 years. Yes, 14. Geez that's a long time.
So, I told her my story and she patiently listened, then gave me this advice.
"You cannot change that person, you cannot control what they do or don't do. Why? Because every one of us has "freedom of choice". What you can control and what you can change is you. "
I had to ponder that for a second. She was right.
So, I did, I changed me. I adjusted a few things in my "thinking", a few things in my choices, and gave the rest to God. He is the only one who has the ability to help the person that is causing so much trouble in my life.
Another thing I realized is that person can only get under my skin if I let them. Its my choice. I need to ignore their behavior and focus on mind instead. God will work out the rest.
I hope that helped someone today. I know that lesson helped me. Be blessed, and as always, if you know of someone who might benefit from this blog, please pass it on.
Your friend,
Renee